kellementology

life according to me

Tag: optimism

  • I’ve Noticed.

    I’ve Noticed.

     

    Although I’ve not spent much time seeking it out, the consensus on the conclusion of 2011 seems to be more of a collective good riddance than a sigh of regret from others I’ve noticed.  I don’t know that I ever feel that way about a year coming to a close — even those years less stellar than the rest — choosing instead to think about what I enjoyed about it.  Or what I learned and want to remember, so ruminate over it all while I’m taking the last look at the lighted Christmas tree, or sweeping up the bits and pieces of torn wrapping paper and ribbon that escaped the first clean-up.

    Noticing what has been significant in a year is important, but not because a determination of  its positive or negative impact is forthcoming.  It just is what it is, and like anything else that happens in a year’s time, it takes its place on the calendar.  Sometimes it fills days or weeks, and others, a mere instant.  But they all seem to vie for my attention — especially when I’m not occupied with something that has to be taken care of.  I ruminate over them, working for some resolution.

    What did I notice about 2011?

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  • Solsticeness

    I know the rest of the world seems to believe that Memorial Day is the kick off for summer, but somehow, the whole idea of that particular holiday kicking off anything has never quite sat right with me.

    Call me a party poopah, but there’s something way wrong about all those furniture sales, and car sales, and well, just any sale to get people up and out to slap them back into a consumer spending stupor.  On Memorial Day?  Okay, so the sales do help with all the purchasing that goes on for school promotions, and graduations, and weddings, you know, in case someone needs a futon or something.  OMG, Dubyah!  What in hell would we have done without your economic stimulus check?

    It’s all nonsense, because today is our favorite day of the year.  Party, anyone?

    bougainvilla

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  • Counting.

    Ever feel like something is creeping up on you?  Ahhh…it’s Wednesday.

    And for me, that means tomorrow is Friday. Thursday is my Friday. I shouldn’t look forward to it the way I do because it inevitably leaves me with the feeling that life is stuck in one of those giant revolving doors that move people in an out of large spaces.

    So I remind myself to take a breath, slow my mind down, and appreciate the day.

    There’s quite a bit to appreciate.

    There isn’t 12 feet of snow on the ground.

    I don’t have to scrape ice off my driveway or windshield.

    I can wear a single layer to work instead of R-30 insulation.

    Everything’s green.

    Best Buy finally delivered a new television and the Geek Squad will be here in a couple of days to put it back on the wall.

    And American Idol will keep us riveted to the television a few hours a week for a while.

    What more could I ask for?

    Okay, so it would be great if Hilary and Obama would stop bickering at one another.  And Mitt Romney would take over the hosting of Jeopardy! and give Alex Trebek a rest.

    Then, life would be perfect.